Many of us like to point accusing fingers on the other party thereby paying less attention to our own attitude. Relationships are not bed of roses where we expect the unimaginable. Amos 3:3 ” Can two walk together, except they agreed”? For a relationship to work ,then the two party involved must come to an agreement and how do you reach an agreement when you’ve not agreed with yourself? What does your behaviour say about you for your partner to agree with you? We know no man is perfect but we must check our excesses to be better people. Matthew 7:5 ” You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye”.
Here are 10 common behaviours we must check:
1. Acting Like You Are Single: This is a top relationship killer. Since you are in a relationship you should never act like you are single. This sort of attitude would be sending all the wrong signals to your partner and this could over time ruin your relationship.
2. Not Honouring Your Partner: Yeah, it’s cool to joke at times and make fun but when it leads to you being over sarcastic it can destroy even the best Bollywood relationship. So try to be more humane and honour your partner.
3. Lack Of Affection: I know some of us love to prove that we can do without the opposite s*x and go about our daily affair like we don’t care. But hey, you are now in a relationship and this needs to be put to stop if you want the relationship to work out.
4. Focusing On Your Phone More Than Your Partner: Most of us are guilty of this crime (yes its a crime when it comes to relationship). This is no wonder why numerous relationship crashes nowadays. You need to save some more time for your partner and pay attention to them. That if you want the relationship to work out.
5. Nagging: This is the marriage killer. And not only the females are guilty of this, men also have their own irritating way to Nag. So if you sure want your relationship to last long (forever) then kill the nagging spirit in you rather than it killing your relationship.
. Dishonesty: Trust is key in every relationship and we are all sensitive to trust issues in different ways. Some might take a “petty lie” as a big deal while others would simply ignore it. So to get the best out of your relationship try your best to be honest. This is even going to make it better for you as if you have nothing to hide from your partner you are bound to feel better around that special person.
7. Avoiding Eye Contacts: If at all you are not used to having eye contacts with people since you are in a relationship and with that special one (as you have claimed) then you would need to start having eye contacts with that person. Else you would be sending a wrong signal like you have something to hide.
8. Being Financially Irresponsible: Now that you are in a relationship there are a lot of aspects of your life which needs to change POSITIVELY. If you where the type who spends lavishly and irresponsibly then it’s high time you opt for a change else you would be clearly telling your partner that you are not responsible.
9. Being Dominant: It is so glaring that everyone wants to be free and nobody wants to be tied down by a dominant figure. So when in a relationship try your best not to be too over bearing on your partner so as not to make them feel insecure.
10. Always Being On The Edge: Nobody loves that face of you frowning, and I don’t think you love it either. So do your partner more good by looking more cheerful and less on the edge like a grenade waiting to explode.
Look out for these little things because they matter a great deal.
1 Peter 4:8 Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.
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